'' Look what is she wearing, look how is she laughing''

As we all live in a society were everyone is judged weather the work done is wrong or right.Yes! you heard right even if you do something right people judge you , is it because they are jealous? is it because they cannot do the following act? the main reason is the stereotype thinking OUR society has made , for example; If a girl is not having a fair skin so some family members will say how will she get married, find a job etc. I mean what is the relation between fair skin and getting married and finding a job. When you get a good job it is because of your talent not because of your skin color. On the other side there is one more stereotype that girls cannot wear short dresses or the dresses she likes, who are you to tell her what to wear . If people of 21st century  are thinking this then what will the other generation people will think.
Some people comment on how you laugh, how you smile, how you walk, if you have hair on your leg and face etc. The people who are saying this are having a very low position in the society as they are just judging and watching people gossiping about them, but you , you can just ignore them work on your future goal  20 years after you will see where you will stand and where they will stand.

To ignore such low minded people all you have to do is believe in yourself .Once you have self esteem in yourself you can face any problem easily. 

Remember not everyone is perfect and so you are also not perfect you don't have to change yourself to be in someone's company. If those friends consider you as one friend consider them too  your friend but never let them take advantage of you. 

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